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ORIGINS
“The book originated [from] my earlier work with disturbed adolescents in residential homes and with inmates in a state correctional institution. In those confined spaces, the darker aspects of the soul were free to flare up, the less rational and less socialized parts of ourselves were less restrained, more visible. I learned about an underworld of soul, feelings of abandonment, rage, guilt, despair, and shame. I learned something in those years about the limitations of managing others.
For years after my work in these institutions,
I dreamed about the children and men I worked with and saw
traces of their spirit in the faces of others in the outside
world. I came to believe that genuine change is never a function
of dominance, or even of education, but of empathy and common
ground.” (pg xiii)
THE POWER OF STORYTELLING
“I learned about the soul as a child at the kitchen table, with my family telling stories to each other, jokes, fables, religious anecdotes, how it looked when a neighbor's kid slipped on ice, or how it sounded when an argument broke out on the bus. Everyone got in on it, no matter how many times the same story was told or how long it took. We had time to listen, to interrupt, to yell over each other's voices.
My mother had the most novel approach. She
would tell a joke or sometimes a poignant story, and in the
midst of our laughing or reflecting she would ask why it was
funny or what about her story was so important. We never ceased
to be amazed that she was earnest and wanted to know why, not
to test us but to be sure that she wasn't missing something.
My brother, my sister, and I would then take turns explaining
what was funny or important. We each learned something new,
not the least of which was that we all understood the jokes
and stories differently.”(pg xvii)
SEEING WITH THE 3RD EYE
“[Our instructor] encouraged us to see with a “third
eye,” to practice seeing with heightened awareness. Art, she
reminded us, does not reproduce the visible.
Art renders visible.
So I was staring at El Capitan with my third eye, only it felt
like my two eyes and a headache. There was nothing much to
see; the granite rock was almost completely invisible, the
trees and streams flat in the dull grey overcast of the day.
I was mostly engaged in an internal conversation with myself
about not becoming frustrated.
When my attention returned to the mountain,
I saw that something was happening. The rain had lessened by
degrees, and suddenly feelings within me began to stir. Pulling
out my camera, I framed different sections of the mountain
with my lens. I saw something otherworldly, something I could
not have seen... staring numbly at the scenery. I got an image
in my mind of the trees in partial silhouette staring at the
mountain in awe, their sharp triangular shapes huddled together
below the mysterious outcroppings of rock that hovered above
them. I now understood that to render visible is to see through
the visible into a world that becomes animated with imagination
”(pg 8)
THE LIVING SOUL
“Soul is a gift of divinity, but it is also something
closer to life, connected to the mundane and everyday. The
living soul of Hebrew scripture is not something inside or
outside, but rather a term that weds divinity with humanity,
spirit with body in the beating of the human heart with sacred
inspiration. By not distinguishing the soul as exclusively
the realm of mind as opposed to body, or feeling as opposed
to thought, or higher as opposed to lower, the soul hypothesis
of the ancient Hebrews avoids the dualities that will come
later with the institutionalization of philosophy and religion.
The living soul hints at a mysterious union of opposites: being
human includes both the base textures of the earth and the
ethereal nature of the heavens. This is a soul of both appetite
and vision.”(pg 17)
COLLECTIVE SHADOW
“War psychology has made this principle abundantly
clear; every aspect of despised humanity is projected onto
the enemy. ”
We often see the collective shadow as foreign
and unimaginable... How can acts of violence, for example,
be understood if I cannot imagine violence in myself? How can
acts of senseless and hideous brutality be grasped if I know
that I could never behave in such a way? For those of us who
view ourselves as innocent of the soulís extremities, the reminder
of dark forces only furthers our defenses, the sense that evil
lies in enemy outside ourselves but getting closer. Denying
shadow, however, is fruitless; the consequence, so often, is
the psychological need to scapegoat, to see the long shadow
of evil looming only in others.
The collective shadow may be viewed as the
disowned parts of individual members of a group, race, or nation
projected onto others. The motto for such a group is “Whatever
my group does is good; most everything other groups do is bad.” When in the grip of a collective shadow, we can tolerate only
an idealized image of ourselves; we scapegoat someone or some
group to reflect the parts that have been disowned. (pg
53)
RECLAIMING WHOLENESS
“The confrontation with shadow is
the first tentative step we make toward reclaiming wholeness.”
If the shadow, whether individual, organizational,
or collective, were only evil, we would have cause to ward
it off, to keep it constantly at bay. Yet shadow, as I have
used it, contains wisdom and a warning. When we recognize the
shadow as a natural process, following us as Mara followed
Buddha and Jung’s dream specter followed him as he held
the candle of consciousness, then we can begin to respect the
multiple selves that lie within.
The shadow offers us access to the unresolved
issues of our past, the dispossessed feelings, attitudes, and
emotions that can offer new vitality and a more comprehensive
humanity, if recognized. We learn that we can be both this
and that, tyrannical and empowering, just and unjust, altruistic
and controlling, compassionate the cruel. The experience of
one-dimensionality can give way to a creative polarity that
provides the tension necessary for new learning and new approaches
to living a more differentiated and psychologically richer
life. The confrontation with shadow is the first tentative
step we make toward reclaiming wholeness.
(pg 58)
LOGOS: ENTERING THE SOUL'S DOMAIN
“Individuals require both reflective
time and dialogue with others to achieve logos.”
To go beyond the immediate and literal, we
need to enter the soul's domain, which includes the metaphoric
and imaginal aspects of inward journey. We need time and space
to fantasize, to wonder, to see meaning emerge from apparent
disorder. Efficiency suggests there is no time for such activity,
that someone else has the answer... The notion of logos, on
the other hand, suggests that without reflective time our worldview
becomes fragmented and chaotic.
Logos, deriving from the Greek word legein,
meaning to speak, is a reminder that soul is intimately related
to developing one's own voice. When logos is denied and replaced
with another's logic or displaced with the system's logistics,
the soul has no voice. Logic becomes the thin crust that suppresses
meaning rather than awakening it. Communication plans within
organizations, designed to inform employees about the logic
of change, become instead inhibitors of logos when only the
voice of leadership is heard.
Logos implies the need for speech from many
constituencies within an organization, and not just at the
beginning of the process. Logos requires opportunities to gain
a voice so that what
is really happening under the crust of logic can be explored,
questioned and engaged. (pg 139)
BUBER: ALL REAL LIVING IS MEETING
“All real living is meeting," write Buber.
And from this simple formula we find a passage to perceiving
soul as something not within but between. Within the space
between inner and outer, relationship takes on animation. Dialogue
from dia and logos means literally across the meaning of the
word, a journey across and back between inner coherence of
the one and the other... When we have dialogue we meet at the
crossing between the forms of each other's thought. We pace
up and down our own side of the crossing, until there is a
moment of connection. (pg 259-260)
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